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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

12.06.2025 02:55

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

So, i spoilt her more .

Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

On the 31st of Jan this month .

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Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

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I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

One cannot hold on to bitterness.

Can you give an example of a documentary where the person telling the story believed it to be true, but it turned out to be false?

And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

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Where the ultimate outsiders.

As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

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Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

Would this be the day?

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

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I never cut or harmed myself..

Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

I was 9 years of age.

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And who doesn’t know suffering?

Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

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I of course replied” arh beautiful!

I don,t even have a pension.

And i lived it daily.

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All the time i was locked up.

I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

I think the readers, may guess!

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Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.

Comes on , in middle age.

I think that being gay is wrong, but I treat gay people respectfully like any other person. Is it homophobic? Or offensive in any kind of way? Aren’t disagreement and discrimination two different things?

Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

I could never make a relationship work though!

Ive learnt so much.

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And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

So whats the point in blame.

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

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And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

They are buried together, in the same grave..

We all went to grammer schools

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

This is how, and why children get BPD.

My family never makes their pension either.

I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

The only rule us 5 kids had .

I was writing from the time i was a small child.

You don’ t get a state one here , in England ? until your at least 67 yrs old ! Im 63.

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

My life is so biszare .

Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

What did i know ?

We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

He resisted the act ,that day.

Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

I write beautiful poetry .

Its a big thing in the States for the last 25 years.

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

Yes, a stroke or heart attack is the reason on your death certificate.

But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

I will be 64.

When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

I waited trembling.

Im still living with it.

I know ,a lot about trauma.

But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

I suffer greatly, because of BPD..

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

I was seconnd youngest,

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

We were not on the streets..

Im dying but, im not bitter.

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

I was very sick at this time too.

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

Was to survive, this bastard.

I had hoped to write a book about this .

When she asked me how she looked .

Why did i forgive my father ?

Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

She loved him until the end.

He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

She found it foreign!.

She wouldn,t have been !

We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

But im dying ,and its too late for me.

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

She married twice! .

This is soul school!.

As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.

But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

I have no regrets .

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

(And it was in our own minds.)

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

Who then, do I blame.?

My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

Another so called friend had bit the dust..

I couldn’t, believe it.

I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

It was going to be , some day.

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

One cannot live in the past .

I was scared of men, in general

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

But, we were locked up after school.

One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

He knew the spot.

I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

He was dying to do it , i knew.

I did it because my mum asked me too!

My mum and dad in the seventies!

Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

But it wasn’t much.

I said to her

She was in good health!

Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

Put me off passion for life!!

Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

Especially a lifetime of it.

I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

But ive been too sick for many years..

As i do to all so called friends.?

She died at 55 of colon cancer.

She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!