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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

12.06.2025 12:06

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

It was going to be , some day.

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Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

Would this be the day?

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I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

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And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

He was dying to do it , i knew.

He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

What is the best way to get over your ex?

Especially a lifetime of it.

But im dying ,and its too late for me.

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

Do people of NYC drive around Central Park all the time? Is there any subway tunnel to cross the park quickly? Is it annoying for people and does it cause traffic?

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

And who doesn’t know suffering?

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Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

I did it because my mum asked me too!

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

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Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

Was to survive, this bastard.

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But, we were locked up after school.

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

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His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

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I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

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As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

One cannot hold on to bitterness.

.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

He knew the spot.

But ive been too sick for many years..

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

I was 9 years of age.

My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

I couldn’t, believe it.

Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

I was writing from the time i was a small child.

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

This is soul school!.

What did i know ?

She died at 55 of colon cancer.

But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

One cannot live in the past .

I was scared of men, in general

On the 31st of Jan this month .

Why did i forgive my father ?

So whats the point in blame.

She found it foreign!.

My family never makes their pension either.

I know ,a lot about trauma.

So, i spoilt her more .

They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

We were not on the streets..

Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.

As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

I will be 64.

I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

Ive learnt so much.

As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

I write beautiful poetry .

When she asked me how she looked .

My mum and dad in the seventies!

As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

I had hoped to write a book about this .

She married twice! .

But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

We all went to grammer schools

One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

I never cut or harmed myself..

Im dying but, im not bitter.

And i lived it daily.

But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

Im still living with it.

I think the readers, may guess!

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

He resisted the act ,that day.

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

All the time i was locked up.

It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

I was very sick at this time too.

Who then, do I blame.?

She loved him until the end.

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

This is how, and why children get BPD.

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

But it wasn’t much.

Yes, a stroke or heart attack is the reason on your death certificate.

They are buried together, in the same grave..

But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

I have no regrets .

Where the ultimate outsiders.

She wouldn,t have been !

I don,t even have a pension.

And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

I could never make a relationship work though!

She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

As i do to all so called friends.?

My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

(And it was in our own minds.)

I said to her

Its a big thing in the States for the last 25 years.

She was in good health!

You don’ t get a state one here , in England ? until your at least 67 yrs old ! Im 63.

We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

I of course replied” arh beautiful!

Another so called friend had bit the dust..

He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

I suffer greatly, because of BPD..

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

I waited trembling.

Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

My life is so biszare .

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

Put me off passion for life!!

I was seconnd youngest,

But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

Comes on , in middle age.

Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

The only rule us 5 kids had .

One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.